Monthly Archives: September 2019
What does politeness have to do with anything? You might hear people say, “He/she is so polite”. Something is being conveyed that sets a person apart. Being thoughtful, considerate, even helpful, people seem to take notice. Somehow, by being polite, we are being acknowledged. And I say, “Why not!” To me, it seems like a self-gifting experience. Somehow, we feel validated when our thoughtfulness kicks in; and showing we care! Politeness connects us to others that, more than likely, we…..
Is “class” something we give much thought to? I don’t think we give any thought to class, or having class! However, when we see something exceptional a person is showing in relationship to thoughtfulness, might give us pause. Why should thoughtfulness be exceptional? While growing up, we were taught to always say, “Thank You!” when a given thoughtful gesture was offered us. Acknowledging and showing our gratitude, has been ingrained in us. So, as our horses become more active, do…..
What do we do to show we have class? What makes that person stand apart? In today’s world “class” can belong to anyone. Are we consciously thinking about bringing attention to our behavior as to reveal something that may demonstrate some way of being, that would set us apart? I don’t think so! Class like grace, comes along in a natural way of being. Grace and class are partners; like gratitude, and showing appreciation are partners. Seems to be a…..
What does that tell us? I can tell you! Being prepared is the answer! No worries! Who needs second chances? But, what does preparation really mean? Do doubt, initiative, one’s initiative, is involved. Understanding, even knowing what it’s going to take for the best end result, is the mission; putting fear and doubt in its place. Being focused as to what is important, and knowing the importance as to what one wants to accomplish, or to convey; commitment is looking…..
Is Grace a place? Will we need a suitcase to go find Grace? Maybe, Grace is somewhere in outer space! We’ll need a rocket-ship to go find Grace! Our Blue Bear reminds us: “Grace is more than a place! You can’t misplace, or replace Grace! Grace can be found in a vase! Grace can be discovered in a show-case! Even in bouillabaisse! Grace can be realized in a face… Something to feel, And, to embrace!” B. Louise Bayer, with… Blue…..
Grace is generally an inner harmony, essentially spiritual, which can be translated into outward harmony. A prayer: May the inward and the outward of me, be as one. Techniques can be cultivated. Certain environments, certain modes of life, certain rules of conduct are more conducive to inner and outer harmony than others. There are certain roads that one may follow. Simplification of life may be one of them. A road to Grace! My mind and my heart has been sent…..