What does moving on into the future mean to you? (“I am asking myself that question!”) All of this thoughtful thinking has been paving the way. Yes, we are going somewhere! As individuals, as we all are, moving on into the future. What does moving into the future really mean to you? Is planning in the process? Have you been thinking about your life, and how important that life (yours) truly is? “I hope so!” We all have purpose for…..
To love one another… Is a moment to capture and treasure, Becoming one’s own second nature, To love… Is to place our happiness, In the happiness of another! With selflessness, Comes broadening our vision… Beyond self-serving needs, Fostering positive feelings… Creating good deeds! Our personal happiness grows… When, We nourish someone else’s… Delivering an abundance of, Elevated pulses! B. Louise Bayer – Martens
Self-worth has a lot to do, with purpose! Reaching beyond one’s self, could be a hiding place for self-worth. Just think about that thought! Going beyond “Purpose!” Yes, we are wives and mothers. Lots of purpose being a wife and a mother; doing, and being for others. But, isn’t all that, expected of us? We are constantly doing and giving, for our family’s benefit. Lots of self-worth being a mother, but it is what is expected of us; right? Tell…..
Is “Happiness” an elusive factor? Why do some people seem happier than others? Are we thinking that, happiness, is kind of gift? I’m thinking that it could be some kind of gift; but would be coming to us in some sort of self-gifting form. “How is that?” You may ask. I believe that I may be able to explain where happiness comes from. So, I will ask you, and you may/can answer how you feel about the location of happiness,…..
Guilt is inherent… To our way of being, Regardless of what stage of life… We’re designating, Our conscience creates guilt… Worry about right and wrong, is built! Guilt, enters our being… With a longing for fulfillment, Lessons learned, and now… Ready for us to implement, With a pause and a cause… To re-evaluate, Freedom from guilt… Prepared to resonate, Thanks to “Guilt!” For our resolve, Showing us…how much… We have evolved! B. Louise Bayer
A metaphorical door has opened, and I am feeling more like a whole person. “Why is that?” Freedom to be who we really are, open and honest. Free from guilt, becomes a self-gifting experience. Always being truthful and honest, in all our communications, no matter what, is a gift we give ourselves; letting the chips fall where they may! It is all too easy to cover up, to make up stories, as to our blunders! “Then we do what?” We…..
Okay, this isn’t easy, accepting accountability; I understand that, but why? I think that I have figured this out. Whether intentional or unintentional, where do we go to settle a conflict, or a misunderstanding? Our place to go is not tangible; with the place being within one’s self. This special place is called, “Truth and Honesty!” Accountability leads us to some kind of commitment. Committing ourselves to telling the truth; becoming vulnerable to the outcome. Committing ourselves to telling the…..
So, tell me, where does our wisdom come from? Does wisdom come from the decisions we have made; and then experiencing the outcomes from those choices, that we have made? And, what are those results telling us? Would my feeling be different from yours? Probably. We are individuals, with our own thoughts and feelings; being influenced by our growing up years. But now, we are coming from a place of truth, and accountability. Well, here we are! Accountability has come…..
Courage isn’t something… We automatically know, It’s like having an automatic pilot… Set to go! Courage comes along with… Our miscellaneous and, Being spontaneous! It’s like having our own sponsor, director, and producer, Doing what comes naturally, voluntarily… With spontaneity! Courage is something very near… If we are looking courage, We will find it… Facing the unknown, Without fear! B. Louise Bayer
For finding solutions, or resolving problems, between people, where does one look? Wouldn’t one’s own accountability come into play? More often than not, I would say, one tends to want to look elsewhere, rather than to accept responsibility for the existing problem. Someone has been offended; now what? Would the offended person say, “Excuse me!” Or, does he or she, let the situation pass? By letting the situation go, does what? (Or the moment?) I can tell you! The wounded…..